Does Your Marriage Feel Like It’s Slipping Away?
You might not even realize it’s happening, but these days you’re:
Wishing that the ways you used to express love hadn’t disappeared
Holding onto small frustrations that are building into resentment
Caring more about your children and job than about each other
Hearing your friends and family wonder if you two are ok
Living more like roommates than lovers
Feeling scared about the future &/or
Feeling lonely
YOU WANT TO GET YOUR RELATIONSHIP BACK ON TRACK
Deep down you love your spouse and you’re motivated to make some changes
You’ve tried to make things better, but it isn’t working
You don’t want to waste any time. You’re ready for help
but, you don’t want to BE blamed
and you don’t want to Be immersed in problems
Unlike many programs listed as marriage intensives, The Marriage Reset won’t spend your time dissecting problems.
Certainly, issues in your marriage will come up, but our focus will be on moving you toward the future you want together.
During The Marriage Reset, we’ll draw upon your strengths and what has worked in the past.
I won’t ask you about your sex life, but you are welcome to bring it up.
You’ll be encouraged.
I believe in you!
You don’t want the process to be lonG & Drawn out
Your time is valuable
The Marriage Reset is designed to expediate breakthroughs
Rapid results are possible because:
You’ll be working directly with me, not with someone I’ve trained
You’ll be the only couple, so you’ll have my undivided attention and the content will be tailored to your specific needs
Five relationship coaching sessions are strategically planned to have maximum impact
Typically there are two coaching sessions the first afternoon, two the following morning and one after lunch
This is equivalent to at least 5 weeks of marriage coaching sessions
You Want Tangible Benefits
At the end of Your Marriage Reset, you’ll walk away with personalized strategies and tools for:
Reintroducing some perks that were present when you first fell in love
Making decisions based on your mutual values
Getting back to having fun with each other
Looking forward to dating each other again
Creating a future that you both can look forward to
I can help
I’m Dr. Kristin Barnhart, a licensed psychologist and relationship coach. People describe me as gentle. This means you don’t need to worry that I’m going to be critical of you. I believe that hope and a few tweaks can make a big difference in a marriage.
I’ll guide you toward changes you want in a way that is encouraging and possible.
My specialty is working with couples.
One couple who recently started working with me was unsure if their relationship was going to make it. After implementing what they were learning from me, they are now communicating comfortably with each other and even planning dates!
I use relationship coaching during The Marriage Reset which means that it’s available for couples around the world.
I love traveling, live entertainment and women’s Bible studies.
What you can expect
Five 45-Minute
Coaching Sessions
Your Love Story
Recount the sweet days of falling in love
so that warm feelings return and the stage is set to go deeper
Your Values
Discover the values that can ground you as husband and wife
so that you are more aligned and have a guide for making decisions
Having Fun & Making Memories
Recollect times you’ve had that were fun & memorable
so that you can be intentional about creating special moments for your spouse
Dating – The Essentials
Create a unique list of essential elements for your dates
so that you can experience the joy of dating (again)
The Future You Want
Envision hopeful details about your future
so that these hopes are more likely to become reality
You and your spouse will benefit from these
five online relationship coaching sessions
designed to reset your marriage
What People Are Saying
Kristin is a kind and gentle counselor. She asked questions which caused us to think a little deeper and bring to surface some of the things we had never articulated before. It was a really positive experience for us with lasting effects moving forward.
It brought back the core of our relationship, the excitement, attraction and fun that brought us together.
(After the “Your Love Story” session)
My husband and I made love twice in 24 hours after I applied what I learned from just one coaching session with Kristin
faqs
Who is The Marriage Reset for?
The Marriage Reset is for couples who notice that they haven’t felt emotionally close or made love in awhile. They don’t feel comfortable or at peace with each other anymore. Or their relationship has plateaued or is heading in a direction they don’t like. It’s for couples who want to dedicate 24 hours to their relationship and are invested in a positive outcome.
Where is It?
Wherever you are comfortable! I’ll provide the coaching online so you can pick where you’d like to do it. I recommend doing it away from home to decrease the number of distractions. If you’re up for it, going on a short getaway can really enhance the experience! Wherever you are childcare is essential.
Is there an in-person option?
Yes! Please inquire about this when speaking with me. Just click the Book Now button which will take you to a place where you can choose a time to talk with me before your Marriage Reset.
When is The Marriage Reset?
The timing of The Marriage Reset is tailored to you. Often it is run on a Friday & Saturday, but there is flexibility in which days we choose.
Can we spread the coaching sessions over multiple weeks?
Sure! If you’d like to do one coaching session at a time that is an option too.
What will we do?
We’ll meet online for five 45-minute video coaching sessions. The typical schedule naturally allows for you to plan two optional date nights…no pressure though!
What do we need for The Marriage Reset?
Strong and reliable wifi, a device for video sessions, pen & paper. If you have children, you will need childcare.
How many people will be at The Marriage Reset?
Just the two of you. It is a personalized experience during which you will get my undivided attention and the content will be customized to your needs. That means you won’t be receiving generic material like you would in a group marriage event.
What is relationship coaching?
Think about what a coach of a sports team does. They improve a team’s performance, provide practice drills, give valuable feedback and see the potential in players. Similarly, a relationship coach helps a couple improve their interactions with each other, provides tools for the couple to develop relationship skills, gives valuable feedback and sees the positive potential in the marriage.
What happens when I click on the BOOK NOW button?
You’ll be taken to a page where you can choose a time to talk with me to ask any questions you have and book a date for your Marriage Reset.
Do you have to be married to book The Marriage Reset?
No, you don’t have to be married. The Marriage Reset is open to same sex couples and dating or engaged couples.
How do I reach Kristin to ask another question?
You can reach me at 860-333-8773 or kristin@thebreakthroughcounselor.com
What is the cost of The Marriage Reset?
The cost of the virtual Marriage Reset is $2,000. The cost of the in person Marriage Reset is $3,000.
What is the cancellation policy?
In the event that you cancel, half of the cost will be refunded. The non-refunded half can be used toward future coaching sessions with me.
We loved The Marriage Reset! Can we keep working with Kristin?
Yes! Kristin is available for ongoing relationship coaching sessions and check ins.